Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Are we confused yet?

'Absence makes the heart grow fonder.'

'Out of sight, out of mind.'

'Just remember when you are ignoring them, they are learning to live without you.'

'While you are ignoring her, someone else is begging for her attention.'

'If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If not, it was never meant to be.'

It was hard enough as teenagers to figure out the mixed signals and advise that we got. But as single adults, it hasn't gotten any easier. At what age do the games stop?
Absence does make the heart yearn...it teaches value for what you are missing, and if out of sight, out of mind is what you actually feel, then be honest and move on!

I am tired of a society who plays games! I will ignore her/him and they will want me more?

Why can't we all just be honest with one another? If you are interested, say so. If you want to date, say so. If you want to just be friends, say so. Is it really that difficult? We have all been hurt at one point or another. Are we willing to take a risk again?

I can honestly say that if I love something and it wants to be free, I will let it go. If it comes back, too bad. Most likely, I've moved on.

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